Rooms
Last night I watched the medical show on Fox called "House". The main character is obnoxious, nihilistic, rude, pretentious, and a self-proclaimed grandiose philosopher (all what makes watching a show worthwhile!!). His philosophizing often displays a poor view of humanity and his actions often betray complete submission to his own ideology (again, all that makes watching a conflicted character worthwhile!!). Last night's show brought an interesting metaphor to mind.
Life is a series of moments when you find yourself in a room with someone (or more people). Who you are and your experience in life is made up of what happens in those rooms. What matters at any given moment is what is happening in that particular room.
I thought the concept was fascinating. Not where Dr. House on the show went with it, but the concept of living your life by series of rooms.
In a way, it sort of simplifies the complex for us. It makes living manageable for us. In our complicated and conflicted culture where our attention is divided and being multi-tasked, we find ourselves (our heart, our mind, our soul) often lost in a "city" of it all. We are not culturally special... we are only a consumer to the culture of the various things. This metaphor of living and experiencing things and people from room to room seems to bring some semblance of sanity to it all.
Even more direct would be what we do as spiritual directors, pastors, parents, teachers, coaches, etc. with people (children, youth, or adults) in the various rooms. We encounter people in rooms all the time. What do we do in the rooms? Do we take advantage of that moment in time in that room? Or do we sometimes waste it?
I don't know... I'm not saying that we need to live constantly maximizing every opportunity and kicking ourselves over and over again for missing or not maximizing that moment. But I am saying that maybe we need to think strategically about what we do in those various rooms in our lives (and the lives of those we minister to and with) not just let them happen naturally. Intentionality is in play here. How much do we live with intention in those rooms?
I haven't completed my thoughts on this metaphor... I only just started them. Perhaps they are really off. I don't know... the thought of life being a series of rooms where we meet people and experience things struck me as a powerful concept.
What about you?
Life is a series of moments when you find yourself in a room with someone (or more people). Who you are and your experience in life is made up of what happens in those rooms. What matters at any given moment is what is happening in that particular room.
I thought the concept was fascinating. Not where Dr. House on the show went with it, but the concept of living your life by series of rooms.
In a way, it sort of simplifies the complex for us. It makes living manageable for us. In our complicated and conflicted culture where our attention is divided and being multi-tasked, we find ourselves (our heart, our mind, our soul) often lost in a "city" of it all. We are not culturally special... we are only a consumer to the culture of the various things. This metaphor of living and experiencing things and people from room to room seems to bring some semblance of sanity to it all.
Even more direct would be what we do as spiritual directors, pastors, parents, teachers, coaches, etc. with people (children, youth, or adults) in the various rooms. We encounter people in rooms all the time. What do we do in the rooms? Do we take advantage of that moment in time in that room? Or do we sometimes waste it?
I don't know... I'm not saying that we need to live constantly maximizing every opportunity and kicking ourselves over and over again for missing or not maximizing that moment. But I am saying that maybe we need to think strategically about what we do in those various rooms in our lives (and the lives of those we minister to and with) not just let them happen naturally. Intentionality is in play here. How much do we live with intention in those rooms?
I haven't completed my thoughts on this metaphor... I only just started them. Perhaps they are really off. I don't know... the thought of life being a series of rooms where we meet people and experience things struck me as a powerful concept.
What about you?